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10 Low-key Hen Party Ideas for the Laid-back Bride

1 Feb 2023

Girls Celebrating at a Hen Party


While hen parties have traditionally been associated with wild partying, copious amounts of alcohol, and public embarrassment, we understand that this is not everyone’s cup of tea. Therefore, we’ve compiled a list of low-key hen do ideas that are perfect for those who want to spend some relaxing time with their closest friends before their big day. Our research has led us to find the best options for a lowkey hen party that is bound to still be memorable, so check our list below for some inspiration!


1. Movie Night

Us girls love a good movie. Nothing beats snuggling up with a bottle of wine and some tasty snacks to watch your favourite movie with your girlfriends. Therefore, if you’re looking for a simple yet fun hen party activity that everyone can participate in and enjoy, a movie night is a great choice. Designate one room as a screening room and decorate it with fairy lights, blankets, pillows, and a snack table. Put on the bride’s favourite movie, preferably a chick flick or rom-com, and you have the perfect chilled-out hen party activity that everyone can enjoy!


2. Afternoon Tea

Afternoon tea is a quintessentially British affair that makes for an elegant hen party activity. It is the perfect opportunity for you and your fellow hens to unwind while indulging in some delectable treats, and it is also ideal for a wide range of guests, including in-laws, mothers, aunts, and even grandmothers! There are numerous beautiful spots for afternoon tea, ranging from boats and buses to cafes and bars. You could even host your own afternoon tea at home if you do not wish to go out. If you want to add a bit of cheekiness to your celebrations, you could hire a Buff Butler to wait on you hand and foot, relieving stress and providing that little bit of eye candy.


3. Weekend Away

Hen weekends abroad don’t need to consist of wild parties in Ibiza or nights out in Vegas. There are plenty of great options for a low-key hen party while exploring a new country. Spending a long weekend on the Amalfi Coast with your best friends, sipping wine, eating local Italian cuisine, and relaxing on the beach sounds like a great idea. Alternatively, consider a city break where you and your girlfriends can sightsee and shop – Paris, Milan, Barcelona, and Budapest are all great choices! There is no need for it to be wild, but it gives you a chance to spend some quality time with your best friends and escape the stress of the wedding.


4. Cocktail Making Class

If you and your girlfriends enjoy sipping cocktails together but don’t want to deal with the hustle and bustle of a busy bar, why not bring the bar to you with a mobile Cocktail Masterclass? You will be able to relax and unwind in the privacy of your own home while a muscular mixologist teaches you how to mix, muddle, and shake your own delectable cocktails. Since you are in the privacy and comfort of your own home, there is no need to worry about embarrassing yourself in front of others if things do get a little out of hand.


5. Chocolate Making Workshop

A Chocolate Making Workshop is a great low-key hen party idea for the chocoholics among us. You’ll learn everything you need to know about the art of chocolate making while mixing, piping, rolling, encasing, and decorating your treats. This low-key yet sophisticated class is a lot of fun, and it’s perfect for those looking for something a little different.


6. Yoga Class 

Looking for a fresh, current, and slightly unusual pre-wedding idea? A relaxing yoga class could be the perfect way to make your hen weekend the most memorable. If you’re getting in shape to say yes to the dress, or if you want to transport your girlfriends to a world of tranquillity and self-love, a yoga class will provide just the cleanse you’re looking for. This one is perfect for the zen hens!


7. Private Chef

Nothing beats dinner with friends, in which you can sit and eat delicious food while catching up. The hassle of finding a restaurant that everyone likes, splitting the bill at the end of the night, as well as venturing out into town, on the other hand, can be too much. That is why a Private Chef is an excellent choice for those seeking a low-key hen party experience. You can sit back and relax with a glass of champagne while a professional chef prepares, cooks, and serves your menu of choice in your kitchen. This is not only a fantastic low-key hen party option, but it is also completely stress-free!


8. Dance Class

If you and your hens are Strictly Come Dancing fans, why not take a dance class? It is the ideal hen party idea for those who want to inject some fun and energy into their weekend while remaining low-key. A professional choreographer will tailor the lesson to the group’s ability and preferences, starting with the fundamentals and progressing to a short routine. With so many themed classes available, such as Bollywood lessons, Cheer workshops, and even Dirty Dancing masterclasses, the only thing left to do is choose a theme, so think about what gets the bride up and moving and go from there.


9. Life Drawing Class

A Life Drawing Class is an excellent activity for those who want to spice up their hen party while remaining classy and lowkey. What could be more relaxing than sitting back, sipping champagne, and sketching a beautiful naked man lying in front of you? This is a fantastic activity in which everyone can take part, and it is sure to make everyone giggle in delight!


10. Spa Day

Everyone enjoys a little pampering now and then, and the bride-to-be certainly deserves it in the run-up to the big day, so why not treat yourself and your fellow hens to a luxury spa day? There is no better way to unwind on your low-key hen weekend than with this. You could even have a mobile pamper day and experience pure bliss and tranquillity in the comfort of your own home if you don’t want to leave your house or accommodation.


We hope we’ve given you some inspiration for any low-key hen parties you’re planning. Remember that a smaller, more relaxed hen party that does not include several nights of partying and endless drinking is perfectly acceptable. With these suggestions, we are confident that your hen party will be truly memorable!

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