How to Plan a Good Hen Party: The Ultimate Guide
Planning a hen party can feel like a lot of pressure — especially if you’re the maid of honour or best friend tasked with giving the bride-to-be the send-off she deserves. But don’t worry — with a little creativity, organisation, and cheeky charm, you can throw a hen party that’s unforgettable for all the right reasons.
Here’s your step-by-step guide to planning a hen do that’s fun, fabulous, and perfectly tailored to your bride.
1. Start Early and Set a Budget
The best hen parties are planned in advance. Give yourself at least 2–3 months (more if it’s a weekend away), and speak to the bride about:
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Guest list
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Preferred dates
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Vibe (wild night, classy weekend, chill day?)
Then, decide on a realistic budget for the group. Make sure activities, travel, food, and a few surprises are factored in!
2. Choose a Great Location
Whether you’re staying local or going all out with a weekend away, location matters.
Top UK hen party hotspots include:
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Brighton – beach, bars, and a brilliant party scene
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London – glam, bottomless brunches, and endless activities
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Manchester – nightlife and quirky group fun
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Your own home or Airbnb – perfect for a more private celebration
3. Add a Butler in the Buff to the Mix
A Butler in the Buff takes any hen party to the next level. Charming, professional, and dressed in nothing but an apron and bowtie, our butlers:
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Serve drinks & nibbles
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Host games
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Pose for photos
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Keep the party buzzing
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4. Include a Memorable Activity
Hen parties are more fun with a shared activity. Some unforgettable ideas:
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Life Drawing Class – flirty and fun
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Cocktail Masterclass – learn to mix, sip, and giggle
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Dance Class – from Beyoncé to burlesque
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Pamper Party – chill out with prosecco and facials
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5. Plan Games, Surprises & Keepsakes
No hen party is complete without a few hilarious games and thoughtful touches to make the bride feel extra special. Plan a mix of cheeky and lighthearted activities to keep the energy up throughout the day or night.
Popular game ideas include:
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Mr & Mrs Quiz
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Prosecco Pong
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Balloon Pop
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Find the Plaster
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Hen Party Bingo
Need more inspiration? Check out our full guide to the best hen party games – perfect for groups of all ages and vibes.
Don’t forget a keepsake! Think: personalised sashes, signed photo frames, or a scrapbook of messages and memories for the bride-to-be.
6. Don’t Forget the Practical Stuff
Make sure you’ve also sorted:
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Group chat for planning
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Clear schedule & transport plan
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Dietary needs or allergies
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Payment deadlines
Tip: Use shared Google Docs or planning apps like Trello or WhatsApp polls.
FAQs – Planning a Hen Do with Butlers with Bums
How far in advance should I book a butler or activity?
We recommend 4–6 weeks in advance for best availability.
Can we have multiple butlers?
Absolutely – many groups hire 2 butlers for larger events.
What if we want a private venue?
We can come to your venue, Airbnb, or help recommend local hire spaces.
Is everything suitable for mixed-age groups?
Yes – our services are fun, respectful, and professional.
Do you offer packages with activities + butlers?
Yes – we can combine life drawing, cocktails, and butler service into one cheeky bundle!
Final Thought
A good hen party isn’t just about wild nights – it’s about celebrating friendship, laughter, and love before the big day. With a bit of planning and a cheeky twist from Butlers with Bums, your hen do will be remembered for years to come.
