Top 10 Fun Hen Party Ideas You’ll Never Forget
Planning a hen party and want something cheeky, classy, and downright unforgettable? Whether you’re the maid of honour, a bridesmaid, or the bride herself, these 10 ideas will guarantee laughter, bonding, and memories that last a lifetime.
1. Life Drawing with a Butler in the Buff
Put your artistic skills (or lack of them) to the test with a life drawing class, hosted by one of our charming Butlers with Bums. Expect giggles, cheeky poses, and hilarious masterpieces to take home.
Available nationwide – at your venue or one of ours
Find out more about life drawing classes
2. Cocktail Masterclass – Shaken Not Stirred (and Shirtless)
Get hands-on with a cocktail masterclass where a gorgeous butler serves up drinks, games, and flirty fun. Perfect for mixing drinks and conversation.
Add a signature cocktail named after the bride!
3. Pamper Party with a Cheeky Twist
Spa days don’t have to be serious. Combine facials, mani-pedis, and massages with a semi-naked butler serving prosecco and strawberries.
✨ Work with mobile beauticians + butler service
4. Butler at Home: Girls’ Night In Just Got Hotter
Not planning a big night out? Bring the party home with one (or two) of our Butlers in the Buff. They’ll serve drinks, host games, and turn your living room into a laughter zone.
5. Silent Disco or 90s Party Night
Hire headphones and bring your favourite throwback tunes to life. Pair with neon lights, glitter, and – you guessed it – a butler in charge of party vibes.
Spice Girls + shots = winning combo.
6. Hen Party on a Boat
Set sail with your besties for a private boat party. Add a butler to keep drinks flowing and the fun going.
Combine with a cocktail class or topless waiter service on board.
7. Outdoor Adventure with a Sexy Survival Guide
From axe throwing and zip-lining to treasure hunts, add a hunky butler in the woods or as your team leader to spice up the challenge.
️ For wild brides who love the outdoors (and eye candy).
8. Murder Mystery with a Saucy Twist
Plan a murder mystery dinner party where the butler isn’t just a suspect… he’s also shirtless and serving cocktails.
Optional themes: 1920s, James Bond, Moulin Rouge
9. Private Hen Party Photoshoot
Capture the vibe with a glam photoshoot. You bring the squad, we bring the abs. Great for group shots and making the bride feel extra special.
Ideal before going out for the evening
10. Hen Party City Break
Whether it’s Brighton, Manchester, or London – combine accommodation, nightlife, and your own buff butler. We’ll meet you at your Airbnb or hotel with bubbly in hand.
❓ FAQs – Planning Your Perfect Hen Party
How far in advance should I book a butler?
We recommend booking at least 4–6 weeks in advance, especially for summer weekends.
What does a butler in the buff actually do at a hen party?
A butler in the buff is your cheeky, charming host for the night. He’ll greet guests, serve drinks and snacks, pose for photos, play party games, and keep the bride-to-be smiling from start to finish. Our butlers are professional, polite, and trained to bring the perfect mix of fun and flirtation — all while dressed in just a collar, cuffs, bow tie, and bottom-revealing apron!
Is a butler suitable for mixed-age groups?
Absolutely – our team are professional, charming, and always adapt to the vibe of your party.
Can I request a specific look or type of butler?
We’ll do our best to match your preferences! Just let us know when booking.
Final Tip
The best hen parties are those where everyone feels relaxed, included, and just a little bit cheeky. Whether you go all-out with a full weekend plan or keep it cosy at home, one thing’s for sure – you’ll never forget a night with Butlers with Bums.
